Those Who Love Us Best : Scars on the Heart...

"There's one sad truth in life I've found
While journeying east and west -
The only folks we really wound
Are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know,
We please the fleeting guest,
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best." - Ella Wheeler Wilcox.


"Is it true ? It surely cant be, I mean how can we hurt some one we love so dearly ?" - This is what most of us will surely feel. But as is the case with truth its always so strange. In my own life, I have seen, that although I may care for a person with my entire life, but even then I end up finding new and innovative ways of hurting that person.

Its Sad, Its Strange but to put it in simple words I would say - Its the Truth...

We say things we dont mean, Do things we know would hurt them, Make mistakes we shouldn't, and in the end, its always our dearest ones, who has to be left in tears, left in pain.

Yes its true that maybe we dont take pleasure in doing what we do, you see, not many of us are Sadist's, but none the less it dosent at all make our actions justified. We must learn to look at life through their point of view as well, it shouldnt be just what we want to see, but also what they want us to see - their side of the story.

Just remember that the ones closest to you are the ones who would be there even when the world falls apart, so dont alienate them, or even hurt them. Its always easy to break a Heart, but it takes a lifetime to build it or even to appreciate its beauty...