Some times in life, we become so restless just hoping that someone will understand, or maybe Love us, that we never look back, we never realise that there maybe someone waiting quietly and patiently and hoping that we look back, they are silently feeling the same way we are...
Did it ever happen to you, that somewhere, when you were too busy trying to make that dream date of your's love you back, someone else entered your life and expected the same from you ? Or, did it happen, that you were the one who waited for someone to look back, while he/she was just too busy to make someone else love them back ? It hurts to love someone who doesn't give you the time of day. But it hurts even more when you realize that someone you don't give the time of day loved you & gave it up because you loved someone else.
What ever your story, one thing is for sure, it hurts to wait patiently for that person, one who never seems to realise your presence, and it hurts even more, when you choose to be silent as the wind.
You might be thinking, why did I choose such a topic all on a sudden ? It's because, I faced the same dilemma some days back, I was so lost in my quest for that dream, that I had overlooked this small but crucial lesson, offered by life, here I must admit, that I was being a fool and now I feel sorry for the mistakes I made. But I was lucky in a way, mostly people stay silent about this type of delicate issues, but Life decided to give me a second chance, I was made aware of exactly what-it-was that I was overlooking, and some how I managed to rectify my ways.
Today I'm sitting happily, feeling warm in my heart, thinking that although life dose'nt give many opportunities, but if I take the ones that is on the offing, I can be a happy soul, specially if I end up making the correct choice.
So the next time, when you choose to be lost in your dreams, just take some time out, and look back, maybe, just maybe, there is someone waiting, and feeling the same way as you...
Friday, May 25, 2007
Love - Is it Freedom ? or, Posession ?
Him that I love, I wish to be free, even from me. - Anne Morrow Lindbergh
Love, its such a over whelming and pretty feeling, but did you ever gave a thought, to this fundamental question ~ Is it freedom ? or, is it posession ?
Well if you ask me, i'd say Love is freedom, I hate imposing things, and specially when it comes to the one I love, I mean the one I love should be free from all kinds of barriers.
I've seen relations turning stormy, just because of that simple glance your girl/boy friend exchanged with that beautiful stranger on the road. I feel its so childish ? I dont know how these people start such a relation based on so little trust. A relation specially a Love relation should be based on trust, and we should all respect this fact ~ that the one who loves us true, will always be there with us no matter what, and the ones that do want to break free, will go away, no matter what you do, they will go away, no matter how much you keep them from staring at others, who apparently are more beautiful than you.
Once there was a butterfly in my palm, but I let it flew. Not because I don't love it but because I wanted it to enjoy with the flowers & the bees. Keeping it in my palm won't make it the best butterfly it can be. So from a distance I'm happier watching it fly & play in the garden while the sun is still shining because when the rain comes, I'll know if it truly loves me, it will fly back to me. ~ I read this some where on the internet I dont know who wrote it, but it truly echoed exactly what i had to say.
In the end i'd say - If you Love someone give 'em the freedom to find their way and silently see whether it leads them towards or away from you, because after the moment when all is said and done, you'd be contented to know, that atleast, you did not force Love...
Love, its such a over whelming and pretty feeling, but did you ever gave a thought, to this fundamental question ~ Is it freedom ? or, is it posession ?
Well if you ask me, i'd say Love is freedom, I hate imposing things, and specially when it comes to the one I love, I mean the one I love should be free from all kinds of barriers.
I've seen relations turning stormy, just because of that simple glance your girl/boy friend exchanged with that beautiful stranger on the road. I feel its so childish ? I dont know how these people start such a relation based on so little trust. A relation specially a Love relation should be based on trust, and we should all respect this fact ~ that the one who loves us true, will always be there with us no matter what, and the ones that do want to break free, will go away, no matter what you do, they will go away, no matter how much you keep them from staring at others, who apparently are more beautiful than you.
Once there was a butterfly in my palm, but I let it flew. Not because I don't love it but because I wanted it to enjoy with the flowers & the bees. Keeping it in my palm won't make it the best butterfly it can be. So from a distance I'm happier watching it fly & play in the garden while the sun is still shining because when the rain comes, I'll know if it truly loves me, it will fly back to me. ~ I read this some where on the internet I dont know who wrote it, but it truly echoed exactly what i had to say.
In the end i'd say - If you Love someone give 'em the freedom to find their way and silently see whether it leads them towards or away from you, because after the moment when all is said and done, you'd be contented to know, that atleast, you did not force Love...
Thursday, May 24, 2007
Life In A Shopping Mall
Summer's back again and its that time of the year when we take turns flocking different shopping plazas or malls just to be under the wraps of that sweet feeling, bone chilling, A.C, no shopping, no eating, just pure chilling out. Its really a effective way to beat the heat and spend some time in comfort when the roads outside are definite hot pans.
If you ask me I've spent my time hopping different shopping malls, I've seen people spending their time with a wide variety of people starting from their older than the oldest buddies (the ones that we refer as being our chaddi friends) to the new girl they chatted up on the internet. It sure beats the heat and it also beats the prices of costly coffee shops in the city.
These shopping malls have also become a nice place to spend that quality time with your hubby away from that sneaky little neighbour of yours, ohh how you hated that that next door aunty when she came to the roof and ruined that perfect setting - Sunset on the horizon and you in the arms of your hubby. Those days are gone for good, but the fact remains that, though these shopping malls remain a good pick among Lovers, but there is a sense of insecurity, of being caught by your all hip and happening relatives, and if that happens God save you.
Now don't think that a shopping mall without that special one is a complete "jerk's idea". These shopping malls has something to offer to each one of us. It is a good place to meet that old friend whom you didn't meet for some time now, it also offers a perfect setting to do some harmless flirting, trust me it does, I've seen people doing that pretty often although the consequences may vary, starting from a mean look to a straight and painful SLAP across your face. Strangely enough, I've also seen people doing their home work or studies that don't need much of a concentration, personally I feel they are a bit mentally unstable, I mean how can you pull off a tricky maths being inside such hustle and bustle ?
But yes one thing is for sure as the number of Shopping malls increase so will our need to spend our time there I mean its a bargain where you don't have to spend even a paisa and still get to enjoy the comforts of a nerve soothing A.C. So let us all pray that the Shopping malls grow in numbers just for providing us the pleasure of beating the heat.
If you ask me I've spent my time hopping different shopping malls, I've seen people spending their time with a wide variety of people starting from their older than the oldest buddies (the ones that we refer as being our chaddi friends) to the new girl they chatted up on the internet. It sure beats the heat and it also beats the prices of costly coffee shops in the city.
These shopping malls have also become a nice place to spend that quality time with your hubby away from that sneaky little neighbour of yours, ohh how you hated that that next door aunty when she came to the roof and ruined that perfect setting - Sunset on the horizon and you in the arms of your hubby. Those days are gone for good, but the fact remains that, though these shopping malls remain a good pick among Lovers, but there is a sense of insecurity, of being caught by your all hip and happening relatives, and if that happens God save you.
Now don't think that a shopping mall without that special one is a complete "jerk's idea". These shopping malls has something to offer to each one of us. It is a good place to meet that old friend whom you didn't meet for some time now, it also offers a perfect setting to do some harmless flirting, trust me it does, I've seen people doing that pretty often although the consequences may vary, starting from a mean look to a straight and painful SLAP across your face. Strangely enough, I've also seen people doing their home work or studies that don't need much of a concentration, personally I feel they are a bit mentally unstable, I mean how can you pull off a tricky maths being inside such hustle and bustle ?
But yes one thing is for sure as the number of Shopping malls increase so will our need to spend our time there I mean its a bargain where you don't have to spend even a paisa and still get to enjoy the comforts of a nerve soothing A.C. So let us all pray that the Shopping malls grow in numbers just for providing us the pleasure of beating the heat.
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Life - What is it all about ?
Life - Whats it all about ? is it about the mistakes you make ? or is it about the glorious moments that you have ?
Down below is what i feel about life
Down below is what i feel about life
Lessons from life
Something good, something bad
Something nice, something sad
Had some faith but lost some fight
Made some mistakes but learnt something right
People say I’m too young and just too naive
But I’ve learnt a lot learnt it all from my life
I dont know about others, but surely i believe that life is a mixture of all those small, small moments that we either refer to as being happy or sad. Judging by my journey so far i must admit that although times might be hard and trouble may seem the only constant in your life its only temporary, not many things stay forever in this world of ours.
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