Him that I love, I wish to be free, even from me. - Anne Morrow Lindbergh
Love, its such a over whelming and pretty feeling, but did you ever gave a thought, to this fundamental question ~ Is it freedom ? or, is it posession ?
Well if you ask me, i'd say Love is freedom, I hate imposing things, and specially when it comes to the one I love, I mean the one I love should be free from all kinds of barriers.
I've seen relations turning stormy, just because of that simple glance your girl/boy friend exchanged with that beautiful stranger on the road. I feel its so childish ? I dont know how these people start such a relation based on so little trust. A relation specially a Love relation should be based on trust, and we should all respect this fact ~ that the one who loves us true, will always be there with us no matter what, and the ones that do want to break free, will go away, no matter what you do, they will go away, no matter how much you keep them from staring at others, who apparently are more beautiful than you.
Once there was a butterfly in my palm, but I let it flew. Not because I don't love it but because I wanted it to enjoy with the flowers & the bees. Keeping it in my palm won't make it the best butterfly it can be. So from a distance I'm happier watching it fly & play in the garden while the sun is still shining because when the rain comes, I'll know if it truly loves me, it will fly back to me. ~ I read this some where on the internet I dont know who wrote it, but it truly echoed exactly what i had to say.
In the end i'd say - If you Love someone give 'em the freedom to find their way and silently see whether it leads them towards or away from you, because after the moment when all is said and done, you'd be contented to know, that atleast, you did not force Love...
Friday, May 25, 2007
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freedom is needed in any kind of relationship....but i belive some kind of possisiveness is really needed... people may differ from the way i think...
but i definitly know that i lik doing this he wants me to do caus ethe situation is vice versa... he never lets me down....why should i
and if he wont be possisive towards me who else will... i llove the way he cares about me and is much concerned
Well,I ‘m srry but I dnt agree with u.wat I’m writing here is nt sumthing written arbitrarily but expression of my well-formed belief.Love can be freedom cuz it changes u fr bttr without making u realize dat.Its a way of attaining freedom.Yet most of the times it becomes a possession.its becomes a binding,which at times seems tiresome.dnt forget we all strive for independence,dats da ultimate goal of most of us.Love sumtimes helps u in attaining it nd sumtimes it deters u.it basically depends on da person
ummm...u r right... now dat i think of it i do it outa love and not possesion
and he does it tooo
ummm...u r right... now dat i think of it i do it outa love and not possesion
and he does it tooo
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i wudnt sy nythin mch cz my frenz sy wenevr i opn my mouth i seem 2 rebellious! bt ds s wt i hv 2 sy dt lov wethr a freedm or a posesion shud bst b lft up2 d ppl cncrnd, snt it? its tru indeed dt lov's posesion s tiresm bt smtims u nd it 2 n at tms unrestrnd freedm 2 bcms a burdn! trust me.ftr al dnt v feel proud wen our boyfrenz sy aloud proudly, "Hey dnt mess arond wth hr , she's MY GRLFREND"!!!!?????????
Difference between God's luv & man's luv:
A bird in the cage is man's love
A bird in the sky is God's love
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